Roles I play each day

2.2.2 Roles I play each day

My day starts getting fresh usually at 6’o clock in the morning. Different roles get started after that in different situations and according to the places. More often the roles I play are:

a)Son

b)Student

c)Friend          

The first role I had to play daily before the way to college is as a son at home. My behaviors towards them is normally polite, gentle and responsible one. And my parents love me however my behaviors are to them. I help them in every work of my parents. Normally I am at the home while I play this role.

            Secondly,  the role  I play each day expect holiday is as a student. I play this role with my teachers either in the college premises or outside. I normally get simple and common response from teacher’s, as my behavior towards them is polite and gentle. Normally I’m at the classroom when I play this role and within the college premises.

            Remaining time is normally for friends so I play a role of a normal friend with all my classmates, friend within the neighborhood. Not almost but my friends behave as I expect them to and the things that I try to achieve in this role are the attention of my friends and some excitement which may include sports too. This is the most enjoyable part of my day and I play this role within the college and also outside the college where  I meet my friends to share and gossips.

            Among all the roles that I play, all the roles are amazing and important as all of tem feel comfortable with me.

Difference between 'Fear' and 'Respect'

2.2.4
      Fear and respect are different as well as similar to each other. Fear and respect are different from each other by a very small distant. Hence, it is always mistaken for one another. fear is something that we learn since we were born, while respect is something that we earn.
       As human, the presence of fear is always on us, it can be real or imaginary depending on a misperception of a situation which leads to feel anxiety and insecure causes a toxic in our life. Respect is a nurturing a care and encouraging others for the development. Fear destroys the self-confidence of one's but respect re-builds it. Fear is life threatening and respect is life enhancing. Fear is a sense of force generating more and more by a little and respect is earned by more and more respect to others. Panic is an immediate physical response to unrealistic and irrational fears which can have a huge effect on both emotional and physical well-being. Respect is earlier to loose then it is  to gain as it can be lost in an instant one word, one decision or one action. People can spend their whole lives thinking of ways to earn respect, but unless they do something the will never get it. It is hard for people to get good jobs if they are not respectable.

Difference between ‘Arrogance’ and ‘Confidence’

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       Having self-confidence is wonderful and a positive quality to successfully navigate life. Overconfidence is a weakness and most would agree that arrogance is undesirable.

      Confidence and arrogance come from different sources. Arrogance is rooted in insecurity - a defense from feelings of weakness that are unacceptable and unclaimed. However, a confident person can accept their weakness or faults with grace - even though they may not like them. 

       An arrogant person generally has a skewed view of the world and a warped understanding of themselves. Buddhism asserts that arrogance is to judge one's self-worth by comparison with others. Arrogant people feel good about themselves only through affirming their superiority to others. Genuinely confident people feel great about themselves without comparing with others. People who are self-confident show it with their actions, not by their words. Self-confidence is knowledge of ability while arrogance insists on sharing successes with others.

      Arrogant people can and often do have successes but there are significant costs. Additionally, professional successes can fragile due to difficulties in accepting guidance and feedback and impaired abilities to accept and learn from mistakes. 

     While,not always arrogant, some are plague with an overconfidence that can be problematic. This is most typically seen with inexperience and immaturity. By definition, an overconfident person tends to overestimate the chances of success of an endeavor and underestimate the risks. because of the self-deception involved, overconfidence tends to make people unable to make effective and successful decisions.

      Strive for honest self-acceptance and nurture self-confidence. Beware the pitfalls of crossing the line into overconfidence or arrogance. As with most things in life, the healthy place is always with balance in the middle.